Sunday, 1 February 2009
Ainsley (step sister) has been causing loads of trouble the past week and keeps running away from home and not returning from school etc. Had the police out loads as people didnt know where she was and we were worried about her. She turned up at a mates the first time and didnt want to come home so she stayed there the night then went to school the next day. She had seen her social worker that afternoon and promised her she would come home that night but she never did!! Friday night she didnt come home from school again so called the police again and they went out to find her but had no luck, I called Nathan and he said he hadnt seen her either. The next day Annalise's Mam called to say that Annalise had been speaking to a mate online and they told her that Ainsley was at her mate Becca's house in the Avenues. Becca's Aunty lives across the road from me so I went there and asked for Becca's address and explained to her why, her husband took me there but by the time I got there the police had already arrived. If the policeman wasn't there I would have smacked her one for the way she has been acting!! She was determined she wasn't coming home and wanted to go back into care so they left her there for the night as a Children Support Worker was going to pick her up the next morning and bring her home to talk about things. When they got here Ainsley had a face like a smacked arse and full of make up so my Mam asked her nicely to go and take it off but she said no, Mam told her if she didn't go and take it off she would and it would be scrubbed off so away she went and took it off. When I moved away from the sitting room door to let the CSW out Ainsley got out before her and went straight out the front door as she wasn't stopping here. Craig and I went shopping and when we were walking out I saw Ainsley and Becca sitting on the bench just inside the doors and if looks could kill Craig would be six feet under. The police called just after 5pm saying they had picked Ainsley up from Asda and wanted the EDT (Emergency Duty Team) number to try and sort something out as she was still determined she wasn't coming back here. An officer turned up here and asked if Ainsley could go to Annalise's house for the night until Social Services could pick up where they left off tomorrow so Mam and Craig agreed if it was ok with Anne. Police took her there and Ann said it was ok so they came back to let us know and to collect some clean underwear for her. We will see what happens tomorrow and I will post again once I know more.
Tuesday, 27 January 2009
Saturday, 10 January 2009
It was Keely's 1st Christmas and she got spoilt rotten (not that she knew what was going on) lol. She got loads of new clothes, money, a play gym, teddies, spinning tops, baby roller, music cubes and a couple of other toys that make noises. Craig made Christmas dinner and it was lush, we blended a little bit up for Keely to try and she loved it :D She went for her third lot of injections yesterday and she screamed her head off :( but its her last lot until she is 1 now. Take her to get weighed on Monday and am dreading them telling me how much she weighs as she aint been weighed in a month with it being Christmas. So she has probably put on loads of weight because we have weaned her on to solids now with her being 4 months old (don't feel like I have had her that long!!)
The day after my 21st birthday Matt's girlfriend rang me to find out who I was and who Keely was so I told her and she wasn't best pleased. He had only told her that he had one daughter (his other one who is 2 years old) and he never told her that he had been over here to see Keely. So she finished with him for lying to her and so Matt came here shouting his mouth off saying once I went home he was going to kill me and also said he was going to call Social Services and get Keely taken off me. I called the police as I was scared for her safety and mine. After they had been and took my statement they went out looking for him so Keely, Laura and I went back round to mine and while we were sat in the sitting room someone knocked on the window so we all went upstairs and I called the police to let them know. They came to my house and asked what we had heard etc so they went and searched the area and the field behind my house for him. It happened again so I called the police again but when they came they asked why we thought it was Matt cos we never saw him but I don't speak to anyone on my street so why would they knock on my window. To get into my garden they would have had to climb over next doors fence as my gate is bolted shut, so the police basically thought we were wasting their time. They told me that I couldn't press charges as the threats weren't made directly to me so was advised to get an injunction out against him. I have since been to court and got the injunction and the second time I went Matt was also there to give his side of the story but he wasn't legally represented and accepted all the terms of the injunction. This means he isn't allowed anywhere near me or Keely and aint allowed to contact me in anyway until May 2009 when it runs out.
A couple of months ago I contacted CSA and gave them all of Matts details that I knew and they said they would contact him about money for Keely. I have since had a phone call off them saying that they contacted Matt and he has replied to them denying he is her father so we have to do DNA now to prove it. He knows for a fact he is because he is the only guy I slept with so there is no denying it. Once the results come back I am going to frame them lol, he is only putting off what he has to do in the long run so he is in for a big shock.
I have decided that I want to get a job until September then go to college to do a hairdressing course as I like doing peoples hair so why not make a living out of it!
Monday, 1 December 2008
Thursday, 20 November 2008
She was christened on 16th Nov 2008 looking cute in her christening dress. Craig made her cake and my gran iced it then my contribution towards it was the pink decoration round the top and her name and date of christening wrote on the top in pink icing :) Her godparents are my mam Jacqui, Craig, brothers Dene and Ian and my best mate Laura. Laura has come up for a week but dont want her to go home again :(
Was my 21st birthday on 18th Nov...had an Ann Summers party and had people round but a few people dropped out at the last minute so who needs enemies when i have friends like that!!! Had a great night anyway and ordered a couple of things from the brochure :p
Wednesday, 30 April 2008
Thursday, 17 April 2008
I aint slept with anyone else apart from Matt so i know for definite that he is the father. I was debating whether to tell him or not cos i knew how he would react and would probably cause trouble. Anyway in the end i decided he had a right to know so i called him up and told him, the reaction i got was kind of expected but still upset me so i hung up and burst into tears :( He said he wanted me to get rid otherwise he would come and kick the shit out of me and the baby!! After about 5 mins he called me back and was nice as pie apologising saying he was shocked but he doesnt want another kid etc and was telling me about work and how his parents are doing. After an hour he went and decided he would add me to MSN so we chatted on there for a bit, next thing i know i have some girl adding me asking why i was fucking with Matts head etc and how did i know for definite it was his kid, she then adds Matt to the convo and tells him she is going to smash my jaw or something cos i was bugging her (didnt even say anything to the lass!!) Came offline cos i don't need people threatening to beat me up etc!! He then kept calling the house phone and i didnt want to speak to him so my mam answered, he said something about he would report me for theft (he was on about some lasses address he had wrote down in one of my notebooks i once had at his which is now in my bedroom) I got annoyed with him keep calling so i spoke to him and asked why he was getting this girl involved cos it has nothing to do with her and i didnt need it right now. Was on phone for about 20 mins and still couldnt get it through to him that i wasnt bothered if he was in the babies life or not and wasnt expecting anything off him!! I said i was going as i was tired so he said he would speak to me some other time as we need to sort this out and wants me to meet him after he finishes work on Sunday but aint going and told him so, cos aint going just so he can beat the shit outta me and dont want to be anywhere near him right now.
I aint going to let him or anybody else spoil this for me!! I have my family and friends around me (and Laura in Nottingham lol) which is all i need so if he doesnt want to be in his babies life that is his choice. Been to Blyth today and my mam has bought me a "Pregnancy and Birth" book and a couple of pregnancy magazines so am busy reading them :D I will keep you posted on how we are doing and al post a pic of my scan when i get it...as Laura would say HEHEHEHEHEHEHEHEHEHEHEHE!!!!!!!!!!!!