Had a phone call saying that I am going to receive a letter off the DNA company soon about going for a test to prove Matt is the sperm donor :) they were going to try and contact him to let him know and get more details off him. He has to pay for the test which is £200, he can either pay for it there and then or it will just be added to his maintenance debt. If it comes back that he aint the sperm donor (which it wont) then he will be reimbursed the money! When we receive the letter we have to reply and if they dont hear from us in 2 weeks they will close the case and just assume that Matt is and start to take maintenance off him. When we go for the test we need to take photo ID to prove who we are then if it comes back negative I need to go and confirm whether it actually was Matt who turned up or not. Think once he finds out how much its going to cost him for the test he will just leave it and pay the back maintenance that he hasnt given yet!
Ainsley (step sister) has been causing loads of trouble the past week and keeps running away from home and not returning from school etc. Had the police out loads as people didnt know where she was and we were worried about her. She turned up at a mates the first time and didnt want to come home so she stayed there the night then went to school the next day. She had seen her social worker that afternoon and promised her she would come home that night but she never did!! Friday night she didnt come home from school again so called the police again and they went out to find her but had no luck, I called Nathan and he said he hadnt seen her either. The next day Annalise's Mam called to say that Annalise had been speaking to a mate online and they told her that Ainsley was at her mate Becca's house in the Avenues. Becca's Aunty lives across the road from me so I went there and asked for Becca's address and explained to her why, her husband took me there but by the time I got there the police had already arrived. If the policeman wasn't there I would have smacked her one for the way she has been acting!! She was determined she wasn't coming home and wanted to go back into care so they left her there for the night as a Children Support Worker was going to pick her up the next morning and bring her home to talk about things. When they got here Ainsley had a face like a smacked arse and full of make up so my Mam asked her nicely to go and take it off but she said no, Mam told her if she didn't go and take it off she would and it would be scrubbed off so away she went and took it off. When I moved away from the sitting room door to let the CSW out Ainsley got out before her and went straight out the front door as she wasn't stopping here. Craig and I went shopping and when we were walking out I saw Ainsley and Becca sitting on the bench just inside the doors and if looks could kill Craig would be six feet under. The police called just after 5pm saying they had picked Ainsley up from Asda and wanted the EDT (Emergency Duty Team) number to try and sort something out as she was still determined she wasn't coming back here. An officer turned up here and asked if Ainsley could go to Annalise's house for the night until Social Services could pick up where they left off tomorrow so Mam and Craig agreed if it was ok with Anne. Police took her there and Ann said it was ok so they came back to let us know and to collect some clean underwear for her. We will see what happens tomorrow and I will post again once I know more.